Hebrews 11:1 – “Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.”
Friend To Friend
Billy Graham once said, “Most of us do not understand nuclear fission, but we accept it. I don’t understand television, but I accept it. I don’t understand radio, but every week my voice goes out around the world, and I accept it. Why is it so easy to accept all these man-made miracles and so difficult to accept the miracles of the Bible?”
Faith is a personal issue and often demands that we give up what we can seefor what we cannot see, but just because we can’t see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Let me share some ways to weaken your doubts and strengthen your faith:
- Read the Bible consistently.
Romans 10:17 “Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.”
You may have heard the familiar Old Chinese saying, “There is a good dog and a bad dog fighting within each of us. The one that is going to win is the one we feed the most.” The same is true when it comes to faith and doubt. We weaken our doubt by strengthening our faith in God. The Word of God feeds the new nature God gives us when we surrender our life to Him. As that new nature grows stronger, the old sinful nature becomes weaker and as that old nature becomes weaker, faith in God grows. A steady diet of the Word produces strong faith. Read the bible each day. Memorize a verse of Scripture each week.
- Turn to God constantly.
Mark 9:14-29 tells of the man who brings his demon-possessed son to Jesus Christ and pleads, “If you can do anything, take pit on us and help us.” Jesus responds, “If I can! All things are possible to him who believes.” The dad exclaimed, “Lord, I believe. Help my unbelief!”
Sounds just like us. We believe but we also doubt. In those moments, we must be honest enough to cry out to God. Jesus didn’t punish this man for his doubt. He healed his son. God always responds to honesty.
- Focus on God continually.
Psalm 34:6 “This poor man cried, and the LORD heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles.”
We focus on the mountain while crying out to God for help, wondering if He really will do anything. We need to remember what God promises and does not promise. God does not promise to remove the mountain or that we will even understand the mountain. However, God does promise to help us climb the mountain and He does promise to climb it with us. We must make the continual choice to fix our gaze on God and our glance on the circumstances. When doubt comes, refuse it.
- Seek out faith-builders persistently.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 “And one standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer; three is even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.”
We need to look for people who will encourage us to be faithful instead of constantly looking for ways to undermine our faith. Did you hear about the farmer that had a brilliant dog? He also had a neighbor that was negative – no matter what. If it was raining, the farmer would say to his neighbor, “Boy, look at it rain. God’s washing everything clean.” The neighbor said, “Yeah, but if this rain keeps up, it’s going to flood.” Then the sun would come out and the neighbor would say, “If it keeps that up, it’s going to burn the crops.” The farmer thought, “What am I going to do with this guy?” He made a plan. The farmer trained his dog to walk on water. He didn’t tell his neighbor – just took him duck hunting. Boom! Boom! They got two ducks. The farmer said to his dog, “Go get ‘em.” The dog sprinted across the water, picked up the ducks and hopped back in the boat, nothing wet, just his paws. With a confident smile, the farmer asked his doubting neighbor, “What do you think of that?” The neighbor quickly replied, “He can’t swim, can he?” Do you know people like the neighbor? Run from the doubters in your life. We struggle enough with doubt on our own and should not compound it by investing time in doubters and cynics. Look for people who walk in faith, who believe God and study His Word. They will encourage and build your faith while weakening your doubts.
Women have so much in common. We have the same problems, the same fears and the same doubts. Don’t let fear and doubt wreak havoc in your heart and mind. Stay in God’s Word. Don’t be afraid or ashamed to cry out to Him when you are afraid. Keep your eyes on Him and look for other women who do the same. Will you join me in a new commitment to becoming a woman of faith? Remember, when doubt knocks on the door, just send faith to answer it – and you will find no one there.
Father God, I want to become a woman of faith, but I am so weak. I constantly battle fear and my faith seems so small. Please give me a new thirst for Your Word. I choose to focus on You, Father, instead of focusing on my circumstances. Help me find faith and learn to be a faith-builder each day. I now turn to You, Lord.
In Jesus’s name I pray, amen.
Now It’s Your Turn
- Make a list of your top five fears.
- Choose one verse from today’s devotion for each fear.
- When that fear comes, cry out to God and pray that verse of Scripture aloud.
- Memorize Proverbs 3:5-6 and record it in your journal.
- Share your decision to be a woman of faith with other women who have the same desire.
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What a journey we are on – a journey to the heart of God! Let’s make that journey together, friend. We are here to encourage you and to help strengthen your faith. We are your sisters, your girlfriends in God and we would love to hear from you.
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