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Longing To Be Loved

Gwen Smith

Today’s Truth

“The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.” (Zephaniah 3:17)

Friend to Friend

Every once in a while one of my children surprises me with unexpected sweetness. Like most children, my kids are sweet on a regular basis, but I’m talking about a special, take-my-breath-away sweetness that creates a time capsule moment for my mommy heart. A moment that I will cherish forever.

I had one of those special conversations with my middle child, Hunter, when he was nine year-old. It was bedtime. Teeth were brushed. Jammies were on. Prayers had been prayed. The smell of shampoo lingered from his freshly showered head as I brushed a stray hair from his eye. That’s when he initiated “project: unexpected sweetness” with an innocent question: “Mommy, do you know what I love?”

“What do you love, Hunter?” I asked quietly.

“I love being loved,” he said thoughtfully.  “Yep. I really love being loved.”

As I lay beside him in the dark room I could scarcely process the vastness of his statement.  It was the simplest of thoughts, delightfully honest, yet one of the most profound and insightful statements I’d ever heard come from his lips. From his heart.

When he spoke those four little words, “I love being loved,” he communicated several things to me:

  • He had a deep longing to be loved.
  • He knew he was loved.
  • His love tank was being re-filled as I tucked him in.
  • His greatest need is love.

Like Hunter, our greatest longing is also to be loved… to feel safe, adored, and content in love.

I don’t know where this devotion finds you today, but I sense God nudging me to tell you that He loves you. Completely. Perfectly. Eternally. (Yes, I’m talking to you!) He knows your name, He knows your heart, He knows your circumstances, and He hears your prayers. He loves you and desires for you to rest in His love.

God’s love is not based on performance or beauty. It’s not based on position or abilities. Many times we mistakenly think that if we could just do this or that better – that God would love us more. That if we just hadn’t done this or that – God would love us more. The truth is this: God will never love you more or less…no matter what.  His love is complete and you are the object of His heart. Savor the special sweetness of God’s love for you today. Linger on thoughts of His affection for you.

But don’t take my word for it – take His! The Bible tells us that God’s love for us is unstoppable, unsearchable and unbreakable: “…that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

No matter what you’ve believed in the past, choose by faith to believe this now: you are valued, priceless, and adored by God. “Take in with all Christians the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:18–19, MSG).

When you embrace the deep love of Christ as a personal reality, you gain traction for powerful, meaningful living that begins with forgiveness and continues on in truth and grace. Go in His love today. Be assured of it. Share it. Be changed by it. Change others with it.

Let’s Pray

“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen” (Ephesians 3:16-21).

Amen?  Amen!

Now It’s Your Turn

Do you know that you’re loved? I’m sure that you’re familiar with the famous Scripture verse John 3:16. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Read it again, but this time, insert your name in replacement of “the world.”

“For God so loved _______________ that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

God loves you and takes pleasure when you go to Him. Why? Because you’re His. Made in His image. Restored to His heart through Jesus Christ. Allow Him to quiet you with His love today.  Spend a few moments in prayer right now. Thank Him for His love. Worship at His feet. Be still before Him.

More from the Girlfriends

Okay.  So you know that I’m a worship chick from the word go, right? Well, I think that the perfect ending to our time together today would be to worship. Click over to my Facebook page to listen to a worship song from my latest CD, Uncluttered.  Here’s the link: You can download the songs from Uncluttered on iTunes or Amazon – or order CDs on

God’s love is perfect. He has seen our biggest failures, our greatest places of shame and hurt – and yet, He beckons us to His love, forgiveness, healing, and grace. He has a plan for each life that is far beyond the shattered matters we deal with. Every step of transformation begins with our surrender to the heart of God. If you would like to learn more about how your brokenness can be reworked into a picture of God’s beauty, order the book on Amazon or, for a signed copy, order from Gwen’s website: This resource will help you experience the power of hope, healing and restoration!

14 Responses


    I rally love this! I know that God loves me but I always taught if i were much better He wwould be happy and love me more. But you reminded me that He loves us regardless of what we do.

    • gwen gwen says:

      Praise God. He surely does love you. He loved you so much that He sent His son to die for you. That’s BIG time love, friend!! His Word will remind you again and again of His compassion. Keep seeking his heart and trusting His love, friend.


  2. Sandra says:

    I say Amen and Amen. The devil will like to tell us that we have lost God’s love when we falter. God’s love is unchanging, it is always there. Thank you so much for this message.

  3. Donna says:

    Gwen, thank you so much for this! What a blessing it was to me! Just the day before I received this devotion, I asked God to begin to show me how much He loves me. I know He does and I so easily say that He does, but I don’t think I really grasp HOW much God loves me! Then I get this email from my “Girlfriends in God” and WOW! Do I think I comprehend His complete agape love for me? Let’s just say I am still learning, but what a wonderful way to get me started! That was just for me! Thanks again. It was beautiful! God Bless you!!

    • gwen gwen says:

      How great is our GOD, Donna!!??? So love when He gets up close and personal like that! Keep leaning in to hear his love whispers, girlfriend!


  4. rae says:

    Hello, Praise God for your website. I have been reading your devotions for a while now and I KNOW that the Lord has anointed this site to minister to the hurting. This past three devotions have been about love and relationships. I have been able to show my childs friend these devotions and it is exactly what she needed. She was amazed that this is exactly what she is in need of. Please Please pray for Jason, the father of this teen girl…He does not show her any love and infact he destroys her self esteem. He kicked her out of the house and she is only 16 still in High school. After reading this she wants to come to church now. Thank you.
    Please pray for her as well. This father /daughter relationship needs healing especially since her mother walked out on them 6 years ago. Thank you.

    • gwen gwen says:

      Praise God, indeed. :)

      Holy Lord, We come before you and thank you for the ways you allow us to experience your truth. To think that a website could be the place where a woman finds hope is amazing. YOU are amazing! Please grip Jason’s heart with your hope, grace and truth. Convict what needs convicting. Lead him to your light and salvation so that those around him might be encouraged instead of discouraged. Break the chains that bind this family and bring freedom and peace where there is none. In Jesus name, amen.

  5. Nicole Getsinger says:

    I needed this today and need prayer about feeling unloved and rejected. A human relationship that has ended has left me feeling so alone and sad. Please pray for me and to lift my spirits and make this day go by and better than the one before.
    Thank you!

    • gwen gwen says:

      Heavenly Father, We pray for Nicole and ask that you meet her right where she is with reminders of your love for her. Draw her to your Word continually that she might stand firmly on the significance of who you made her to be in Christ and the plan that you have designed for her life! Hold her as she grieves this loss. In Jesus name, amen.

  6. Kali says:

    I really enjoyed this. A few months ago I started sticking post-its and scribbling anywhere I can “Smile! He loves you!” …it helps me to remember to smile and feel God’s love in everything I do.

  7. Vanessa says:

    This really blessed me, I’m always amazed how God uses our children to give us revelation knowledge in just the sweetest simplest way. Thank you for sharing this story with me.

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